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My wedding day is just 1 month away from now. Today, someone ask me, what if you see someone that is more beautiful, more understanding, more ’suit’ to me…. What he means was "Love at 1st sight"…

I then said that I will not love someone at 1st sight… and it’s impossible to know someone at 1st sight… Again, he throws me another question, "Do yo know what love at 1st sight means?"… Hahaha, of course I know… I then ask him back, "Do you know what "sight" means??"…

When you say you’r in love at 1st sight, you are basically telling others that you love someone because she’s beautiful. Of course, the very basic fundamental element to start a relationship is "Attraction"… For guys, I would say, mostly are based on the physical appearance… Well, for girls, I’m not sure… Mayb you can post a comment here.

Well, that doesn’t seems to be "Love at 1st sight" for me. As mentioned before, my defination for love is "deeeeep"… To be frank, my wife and I nv qualified to say that we love each other at 1st sight. I would say, I was attracted by her physical appearance, (she is a beautiful chick though)…. That is not love, but as time goes by, and we spent every moment together, sharing every thoughts and moment… Our love grows…

SyinNi always tell me that I know her very well, and I treat her very well… But I always said, I want to know you more and I want to do more for you… The idea if to have a smalller me and a bigger you… (ok, I know I’m repeating myself)…

The bottom line is that I’m not a believer to Love at 1st sight, and there’ll be no one to replace SyinNi’s place in my heart.

Dear friends, have you ever ask this question? I believe we only ask this question when something’s not right, that applies to me too. But now, my wedding to this beautiful girl is just 1 month away. I’m asking this question again… WHY ME???

Well, don’t get me wrong. I’m not suffering from the so call "Marriage Fear Symtom", it’s just seems too good to be true, that I’ve found myself. Yeah… I mean ‘myself’, no typo… You see, I’m not a perfect man, I have my weakness. But when I look at SyinNi, she has what I don’t have (I mean mentally). And together we are whole.

By asking "Why me?" when something good happens makes you reflect your weakness and appreciate what you have. And enjoy every moment you had.

Again I’m asking, Why me? God, why do you keep the best girl for me? Am I worthy? I guess that doesn’t matter. What matters most is that I have to live at the present moment, not just live, but enjoy and be joyous. Thanks God, for this wonderful beautiful woman that you’ve sent to me.